Sex For Mark Syndrome. (SMS).
Recently, the world was agog with the
noise of a viral video involving a UNILAG lecturer in a video conversation with
a prospective UNILAG student, demanding to have sex with the student for
admission reasons but it turned out that the prospective student was a BBC
reporter who posted herself as an admission seeker.
Prof Boniface Egbeneghu, the UNILAG lecturer. |
The lecturer, Prof. Boniface
Igbeneghu who was a senior lecturer at the faculty of Arts, the sub dean of the
faculty and the pastor of a local parish for Foursquare Church was caught on
camera by Kiki Mordi and other reporters that are working for BBC in order to
expose lecturers in tertiary institutions in Nigeria and Ghana who demand sex
from students for grades or other reasons. The church had taken immediate
action by dissociating itself from the lecturer. It said “We dissociate
ourselves from the purported heinous and unscriptural conducts of Dr. Igbeneghu
Boniface and promise to take appropriate measures as soon as the ongoing
investigation is concluded” The church had said in a statement issued to a
newspaper, following the scandal. University of Lagos had suspended the lecturer
through its disciplinary committee and promise to take further appropriate
disciplinary actions against him if found guilty of the offence.
watch the video below:
Dr. Paul Kwame Butakor of the
College of Education, University of Ghana was also in the viral video where he
was asking to be an assistant boyfriend
or side-boy to female students. The University
of Ghana had suspended him immediately as a disciplinary measure. According to
different sources, Dr. Boniface was reputed to be famous for this act and many
students had fallen victims of his sexual escapades predation.
Similar thing had happened in
December last year when a professor in Obafemi Awolowo University, Ile Ife Osun
state (Nigeria), Prof Richard Iyiola Akindele was caught on a recorded phone
conversation, asking a post graduate student for sex in exchange for marks.
That audio was probably what set all these sex for mark syndrome thing in
motion. The lecturer had been disgraced online and offline and his career had
been ruined, most importantly he had been jailed for two years.
Prof Richard Iyiola Akindele, the jailed OAU lecturer. |
There have been reported cases of
female teachers, lecturers and employers demanding sex from students and job
seeking applicants in exchange for grades or jobs, has anything been done about
this too? What about lecturers who don’t demand for sex but asks for cash and
kinds, have they been caught too? This is just a battle, we have the whole war
to win and until the war is won, our victory lasts but for a moment.
Back then when I was in school, I had
a female course mate who was also my best friend. There was a particular lecturer
(I’ll withhold his for personal reasons) who desperately wanted to have sex
with this friend. He was notorious for sleeping with female students and
collecting money from male students in order to pass them in his course. He got
the girl’s number through our course rep and was always calling the girl, asking
the girl to come to his house but the girl always rejected his overtures. Over
time, this lust developed into a passionate hatred to the extent that whenever
he sees a male (student) around the girl, he was always mad with rage.
In one of his classes one day, I
and this friend were sitting on same bench and listening to what he was saying.
The whole time, he was looking in our direction. Unfortunately that day, I was
not writing, I was recording the lecture on my phone since I was very close to
the front of the class so I didn’t bother to write. But my friend was jotting
and we were discussing how to exchange notes after the class.
Suddenly, he sighted me and asked
me to stand up. I did. He asked me why I was not writing and I told him that I
was recording the class on my phone, hence I was not writing. He told me to
leave the class and I left. Later, people came to me to tell me that I should
have begged him or do something but I knew that no amount of begging would
placate his rage and hatred so I left. My friend came to me after the class and
said sorry to me for being dismissed from class because of her and I said no
problem.
We wrote the exams that semester
and when the results came out, I and the girl failed the course even when we
had A in other courses. It was as simple as that. In order not to give him any
excuse to fail us, we had attended all his classes, did and submitted all his assignments
promptly and wrote the tests yet he had failed us and we couldn’t even call for
our papers. When we took the matter to the students’ admin, we were advised to
accept our fate and rewrite the paper as carryover; otherwise, we could make
more enemies along the way if we insisted on calling for our papers.
That was a sad tale and there was
nobody that we could tell, no hope of vengeance or retribution. Looking back at
that incident, I was always angry whenever I hear cases of lecturers and
teachers in citadel of learning, demanding sex, cash or kinds from students.
These lecturers and teachers are the worst form of lowlifes the world has ever
known. They often use their position of authority to cheat students and in most
cases, they go away with it.
The saddening part of all these
however is that these people always get off with little or no punishment for their
evil actions. When they are caught, they always lie that the students have seduced
them and somehow, that unreasonable explanation usually scores points. The few
ones like the OAU lecturer who gets punished usually get light punishment. The
punishment should have been harder such that anyone who wishes to go into such
things would think of the implications before embarking on it. Let’s say anyone
caught in the act would be jailed for ten years with hard labour, the act would
have been drastically reduced If not completely stopped.
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